Know Who She Is, Recognize Her Work

"Do not go where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail." Emerson

I had an amazing experience last week. I was asked by the fabulous Chief Judge Ann Aiken to participate in a conference to celebrate the life and unveil the portrait of Justice Betty Roberts. The conference celebrated women and their stories.  Judge Aiken asked women that have "fearlessly and with great heart contributed to the greater good" to share a part of their story. I am SO HONORED to be in this group of women!! Seriously! I was a part of the panel titled Know Who She Is, Recognize Her Work. I made the following points based on 2 questions by MCs and dear friends Carmen Vollique and Katie Kelley.

Why did I leave the corporate world, and start The Link?
Fundamentally, I want to help others to not make the same mistakes I made or at least not be alone in the process. I knew the following was true.
·         Women want to connect with other interesting and interested women for insights.
·         There is no equivalent to the “Old Boys” network for women and we need one!
·         It is hard to find "vetted" experts.
·         In a safe, supportive atmosphere, women are more open to new ideas.
·         There are fantastic women who deserve to be spotlighted as role models.

What does Know Who She Is, Recognize Her Work mean to me?
This topic resonated for me as 'how do we support the other women at work?'.
1.      Ask her about her goals/aspirations and WHY they matter.
2.      Truly listen – Be Curious.
3.      Sincerely acknowledge her contributions. Help build her confidence by recognizing relevant success, especially if it relates to WHY their aspirations matter.

Katie Kelley posted the following pic on FB...thx Katie! And thank you so much Judge Aiken for creating a magical day!